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Post by babydawn on Jul 12, 2005 12:39:29 GMT -5
I am not one to complain, but I have a problem and I am not sure how to deal. I am the Enrichment Leader in my ward and I just got a new gal on my board who is very negative and controlling. I have talked to her in private about it and she promised it would change, but she is still very onery and likes to complain to many behind my back on how she doesn't like some of the decisions I have made. She just got put in about a month ago, and I feel like I should give her a chance, because she has HUGE potential to be an AWESOME asset on our board. She has the vision for enrichment and I do not as of yet. But I myself am not a passive person, so it has stirred up a spirit of contention on my part, which I understand is wrong as well...hence my problem.
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Post by MATT on Jul 28, 2005 16:38:38 GMT -5
I UNDERSTAND YOUR PROBLEM!!! THE BEST THING TO DO IN THIS SITUATION IS TO COMPROMISE AND MAKE ONE ANOTHER SEE THE CAUSE AND EFFECT OF EACHOTHER'S ACTIONS WITHIN THE SECTION. HELP ONE ANOTHER TO NOT WORK AGAINST ONE ANOTHER. WHEN TWO LEADERS ARE IN ONE SECTION, IT IS NATURAL FOR ONE TO TALK ABOUT THE OTHER......SHE'S TRYING TO DIVERT YOUR SUPPORT! HANG IN THERE AND MAKE THE WISEST, MOST MATURE DECISIONS.
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Post by jody on Aug 28, 2005 18:31:18 GMT -5
One of the best things that i can think of that would be of such a great piece of advice for you is to get on your knees and ask your father in heaven for guidance on this problem in prayer, he is always there to hear our prayers and to answer them-he may not answer straight away but percest with it because you will get the answer when you least expect it. I myself have never thankfully had to go through something like this but it does sound pretty bad that you have to go through this it seems to me she is acting in an unchrist like way but also if she is newley called it may just be the excitement and the buss she is getting from having a new calling and what she can offer for it, work together as a team, counsel with your bishop, relief society president to sort this out you are not alone in this you are not doing anything wrong! I hope that you can ge this sorted out soon so that you can be happy serving you Heavenly Father my prayers are with you
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Post by babydawn on Aug 30, 2005 21:33:05 GMT -5
Thanks for all of the advice. We have worked it out (I think). I appreciate it.
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